You don't know what to believe
24th November 2017 | for Creatives | creating isn't easy, artist integrity, filmmaking, feedback/criticism/rejection, value the art, film based on novel, screenwriting, William Kennedy, Jack Nicholson |
"We were talking about Jack Nicholson, and that level of aspiration for the film [based on my novel]. What happened was a change in the hierarchy at Warner Brothers, and the people who had brought the project in no longer had power. That was the first time that happened. But it happened over and over. You don't know what to believe, and you never know for sure why you're getting turned down, or even why they were interested in you in the first place."
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